Self love is not easy. One must have heard the importance of self love countless times. One must have made a decision to put oneself first.
It is natural that we beat ourselves when we do something below us or fail at a point. In such situations, we judge ourselves harshly instead of reminiscing about our achievements.
Failing at a point is part of life. It is a spice to our successes. Failing at a thing or two doesn’t make one a failure. Rather than dwelling in your failures, it is better to pick yourself up. Own up to your mistakes and move on.
We are humans. The best of us make mistakes. Stop judging yourself. You have spent so much time and energy being bitter.
It is time to pick the rest of you. It is time to let go. It is time to love yourself again. It is time to be happy being you.
Your mistakes or failure is not who you are. You are strong, beautiful, you are smart.
Smart enough to let go. Smart enough to try again. This time, give it your best shot.
Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing we’ll ever do...Brene Brown.**
Or, is it about what people think about you? Do you allow people to define you or your self-worth?
Dear friend, Never be ashamed of how someone else sees you. Their opinion of you is not who you are. They see you from their perspective which might be blurred with envy or whatever sentiment.
Again, that is not who you are. You are worthy You have value You’re worthy to love and be loved.
Self love is not pride. Be yourself. Take care of yourself. You are your first love. You are that one person that will change your life. Take charge. You can do it.